Dear Penn State Students,
On Wednesday night, November 9th, many of you protested/rioted because your football coach was fired before he could end his career “with dignity” after his last home game. You probably think this signals to the world how much you love your school and support your athletic program. Or, maybe you aren’t caring much about what others think.
Either way, let me give you an outsider’s perspective on how your actions are being interpreted by others.
Your social protest makes it appear that you care more about your football program that the young children who were raped at the hands of a sexual predator. While you may not think that Coach Paterno is guilty of anything (having done his legal due diligence), there are several facts you may want to consider before lodging another protest:
According to the Grand Jury testimony, a graduate assistant--current assistant coach Mike McQueary--walked into the Penn State locker room in 2003 to find Jerry Sandusky anally raping a 10-year-old boy. Do you understand what that means? He was sodomizing a fifth grader.
Think back to what you were doing when you were 10. In fact, if you are currently a freshman in college, you were 10 years old in 2003. You were probably in 5th grade, enjoying being one of the older kids in elementary school, looking forward to recess with your friends, hoping that maybe your mom would let you watch SpongeBob after school. Now imagine being that kid, and being raped by a middle-aged man. Are you having second thoughts about your actions yet?
Now, after McQueary saw Sandusky anally raping a young boy (I want to say it again, so you don’t forget), he walked out. The next day (yes, he waited until THE NEXT DAY), McQueary told Coach Paterno a watered-down version about Sandusky “fondling” a young boy, and Paterno passed the story along to the Athletic Director, Tim Curley.
Two weeks later, Sandusky had to turn in his keys to the locker room.
Let me say that again…
TWO WEEKS after he raped a 10-year-old boy, Sandusky was punished by having to turn in his keys to the locker room.
No arrest. No jail time. Continued access to young victims.
Your “protest” tells the world that you condone sexual violence against children. Failing to act when a child is victimized is almost as bad as committing the act in the first place. Almost.
You believe that Coach Paterno should be allowed to coach one last game “out of respect”, even though he had knowledge that an assistant coach was sexually assaulting young boys and never even told the police. Your coach might have met his legal obligations, but he failed the more important moral obligation of being a decent human being.
Coach Paterno and Mike McQueary should be hanging their heads in shame. They should be crying themselves to sleep, and thanking the good Lord above that Sandusky never preyed on their children (or grandchildren).
Perhaps someday, Penn State rioters, you will be older and wiser. Not likely, but maybe. Perhaps someday you will have children of your own, and know what many of us are feeling right now—the anger and frustration that an innocent child was harmed beyond belief and potentially scarred for life (physically and mentally) due to the actions of a selfish, amoral rapist.
The horrible truth is that Coach Paterno allowed this to occur on his watch. He knowingly allowed a sexual predator to remain on his coaching staff and have contact with children. And (say it with me), he never called the police.
Your protest over the “disgrace” of Joe Paterno signifies that your moral compass is just as broken as his is. I suggest you start protesting the true miscarriage of justice—the rape of young children, rather than the end of a football legacy.
Very sincerely,
Christina DeJong
Associate Professor
School of Criminal Justice
Michigan State University
P.S. Just so you have no doubt about what to do if you see a child being sexually assaulted:
1. Try to stop it if you can.
2. If you can’t stop it yourself, yell and scream to get the attention of others.
3. Call the police. Immediately.
UPDATE: Here's
another piece on this issue focused on the survivor viewpoint.